“以生命影响生命”,以前听到一些信教的人讲起过,感觉是充满了灵性的一句话,意思大概是人与人相处,用一个人来影响另一个人,一棵树摇动另一颗树,意味着心灵的碰撞,榜样的力量,赋能,陪伴,潜移默化提升旁人能量,或者警醒旁人。
然而我现在有了新的体会,原来以生命影响生命,不仅仅指人之间的影响赋能,生命不仅是人,还可以是动物啊,动物也可以影响人,有些情况下,能产生意想不到的更好的效果。
以我为例,我为了督促自己早起,会约着一群人打晨卡、约跑,可很多时候约着一起的是网友,约束力有限,过了一阵子,热情就消下去了;而且有个坏处,用手机打卡,打开手机很容易东看看西看看,一发不可收拾,不知不觉花了好多时间。
但自从养了小狗以后,每天要溜两次狗,早晚各一次,不然狗子在家吵翻天,那就不得不早起了。每天早上五点多,小狗醒了,就会跑到我房间,跳上我的床,摇摇尾巴向我示好,意思叫我起床。看我不动,会搭过来一只爪子到我手上,再摇尾巴;还不动,就会旺旺大叫几声,吵得我没办法,只能乖乖起来带它出门。只见狗子一出门就找地方撒尿,原来是尿憋急了,还有洁癖不肯在家里尿,当然,我也不想它在家里尿,早起是唯一的解决办法。
我喜欢带小狗到无人的河边,解开绳子,小狗快乐地撒腿就跑,像一匹小马一样奔腾跳跃,跑姿帅气可爱。我渐渐发现,带小狗晨跑是个好主意,因为小狗天性就爱跑步,每次它只要一看到我开始跑步,也会赶紧跑起来,好像要和人类比比,看谁跑得快。当然我是比不过它,很快被狗超过,而且它超过我一段距离,会停下脚步回头看我,等我,到快赶上时又开始狂奔......如此反复,我是那个慢吞吞拖后腿的家伙,腿长也没用,要靠小家伙带领。
跑步过程中,狗有时会被路边什么东西吸引,停下来嗅嗅,给了我超过它一阵的机会,但它意识到差距后,会立马赶上来。或者在我面前炫技,穿梭花式跑,向左跑向右跑横向跑一大截再向前跑一小段,于是,我跑了一条最短的直线距离,而它跑了个弯弯曲曲的复杂S型,当我们同时到达终点,它跑过的距离是我的n倍。
与灵动快速的小狗一起,单调的跑步过程变得有趣,比两个人一起在跑道上跑或者聊天,,毕竟一般人跑步都累嘘嘘的,没多少力气聊天,或者步伐快慢不一,不在一个位置。
小狗无法用语言与人直接交流,没有文化、思想等高级思维,但有自己的愿望和独特的表达方式,边牧天然爱奔跑喜欢亲近人类,真的能很好地帮助人们,实现健康的生活方式,哦耶!
最后附上一首泰戈尔的诗,题目是“以生命影响生命”。生命,不仅仅是人,还有那些小动物。
Influence life with life
Tagore(泰戈尔)
Live yourself as a light,
Because you don't know,
Who by thy light,
Out of the darkness.
Keep the goodness in your heart,
Because you don't know,
Who would take advantage of your kindness,
Out of despair.
Keep faith in your heart,
Because you don't know,
Who would take your faith,
Out of the confusion.
Trust in your own power,
Because you don' t know,
Who would believe in you,
I began to believe in myself…
Keep the confidence in your heart,
Because you don't know,
There are people who believe in you,
I began to be confident and self-reliant.
Anytime, anywhere, under any circumstances,
Don't forget the dreams I keep in my heart,
Not only did I let myself.
Out of darkness and despair and confusion,
More people have to believe it.
They are the light in the night.
Be grateful to meet in life!
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