面对无理取闹最好的对策是沉默

面对无理取闹最好的对策是沉默

KEEP SILENT AND LET SOMETHING RIDICULOUSLY UNREASONABLE PASS YOU BY

Every time anger sweeps across my mind and I am about to utter something complaining and damn, I will think of him and how he looked at me silently when I was a child, being unreasonably troublesome.

I see that silence is the best strategy to any irrational demand when I was a kid naughty around keeping family members restlessly busy.

I knew from my grandpa that one doesn't need to shout aloud or give any trace of impatience or exhaustion to show how you are offended by others. You don't even need to react, and any sense of anger, frustration and tiredness will make you awkward and powerless. He just watched me scream and cry without a word, and continued doing what's at hand until I stopped and no longer asked for something unreasonable.

You are strong inside if you choose to remain silent and focus on what you ought to do without being impacted by something bad imposed on you, since you may save the energy from useless word or overreaction and and let it grow as the strength within. Anger and anxiety is quite normal when you come across something unpleasant, but only few people choose to withhold the aggressive words which they have every reason to say out loud, since they are strong enough to make the choice, silence instead of quarrel.

We lose our inner peace when we make negative reaction to stand against someone asking something unreasonable. It is likely to be aggressive when we are offended. But we may regret for having acting aggressively when we calm down later, realizing that it goes against our intention to be decent and elegant, to be kind and friendly. Moreover, your aggressiveness may stimulate the other party's tendency of keeping acting unreasonably, and he may keep doing what he wants since he has a response from you. You are unlikely to stop unreasonable demands from others by shouting them away, but they may stop coming your way if you make no response, silent them into silence. Even if they keep raging on stubbornly, you can withhold your energy from wasting on meaningless wrath or unnecessary wrangle.