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2018/12/01 周六 晴朗多风
好好珍惜所拥有的一切
Most of us are like this, do not understand what sense of proportion, fall in love with a person began to pour out their heart out of their lungs, pour out all.
To start a relationship, it is just like on the day of double eleven, you happily buy the goods you like for a long time, but you cannot judge whether you will continue to be happy or disappointed when you receive the goods in the future.
Some people buy the right, is love; Some people decisive return, is the youth; Others make do with it and forget that the dress didn't fit right from the start.
Last night, after meng came back from work, we watched a movie together, "forgive him 77 times" :
Adam and eve together for ten years, but suddenly because of a very small thing broke up.
Then Adam found a diary at home, in which he recorded his seventy-seven hurts to eve.
After seeing this, Adam felt so guilty that he took courage to apologize to eve and finally managed to get forgiveness.
But the good times did not last long. Soon eve found the things that other women had left in Adam's house.
If you have forgiven someone 77 times, do you continue to forgive them 78 times, 79 times?
The most afraid in a relationship can not see hope, only endless disappointment.
In love, the most afraid is the habit, used to accept a person's good, forget that they should also have something to give back; Accustomed to pay for a person, always forget that they have a fragile and sensitive heart.
I am also the baby in the eyes of others, but here you have suffered grievance, save enough disappointment, end up an empty joy.
Falling in love with someone who does not know how to respond is probably like you walking in front of me. I have been chasing him for a long time. I am very hungry and tired, but you never know to stop and wait for me.
Remember in the winter of last year, the old dou crazy pursuit of a smaller than their junior, moved us this dry friends, but never touched the girl.
The girl said he caught a cold, he went out to buy medicine in the middle of the night over the wall, and then bestie transferred to the hand, and the girl did not appear in the whole process, did not say a thank you.
The girl said he was very poor recently, no money to eat, he was impatient to put his pocket money to contribute out, and then eat steamed bread pickles.
She said she wanted a scarf for Christmas this year, and he kept nagging us about which one looked better.
Old dou brave confession, the girl immediately change the topic, do not accept, do not refuse.
Finally, one party finally saved enough disappointment to leave, one party can not stand the sudden neglect, began to regret, admitted that he moved the heart.
We laugh at him, so good boy, but a cavity of enthusiasm to pay the wrong person.
Born human, we all want the temperature, afraid of loneliness; Want to respond, but gradually put their hopes into a bitter soup.
I have heard a story before: a soldier fell in love with a princess. The princess told him that she would accept him if he would stay under her balcony for 100 consecutive nights.
So the soldier did, no matter how bad the weather, he did not leave, he waited for a day, two days, three days... Until the 99th day, he stood up and left her.
Not because I don't love, but in these 99 days, I hope you can look back at me, love me, but you did not, so I decided to let go.
Each of our feelings are limited, each encounter with disappointment will be divided into some like, when like little left, only left to leave can choose.
In this world in addition to parents, no one's efforts, is not eager to get the return.
Therefore, our most basic attitude towards love should be like this: if we can't afford a relationship, we will refuse decisively; If two lives rejoice, cherish one another.
Zhang ailing said: "when she saw him, she became very low, low into the dust. But her heart is glad, and flowers grow out of the dust.
We become humble because of love, but also know to withdraw at any time, as in the end of the story, zhang ailing decisively gave up hu lancheng.
In the rest of life, what we need is not someone you chase after but someone who is willing to take you with you when you are tired
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