玻璃心

玻璃心

所谓的玻璃心大概就是指那些内心异常敏感，别人的一言一行都觉得是针对自己的，从而产生很大的怀疑，甚至诞生出一种反抗情绪的行为了吧。在当前的社会生活中，这样的人似乎不少总是在怀疑别人在陷害他。或者说的什么话做的什么事情是有意针对他的。有的时候会自言之义，也有的时候会觉得应该奋起反击，至少远远的叫嚣一下，或者把它写到日记本里，发到简书上。（ ’ - ’ * )

其实不只是人，一个公司，一个团体，一个地区，一个国家乃至一个民族都是这样的。其实这很大程度上也是体现了自己的不自信自信的人是不在乎别人怎么说的，也就是能够把目光放的更长远放到更加重要的事情上来，而不去关注那些营营苟苟，或者不会因为一件事情想的太多，一笑而过反倒是没有什么事情了。

Cabin Hospital in HK

Saw news, probably in Hong Kong's mobile cabin hospital started to deal with the epidemic situation the invasion. It seems that the mobile cabin hospital is to transform it into a Museum. so there are many murals on the wall, and there is a picture of the Statue of Liberty in the United States. So the writer of the news can't stand the stimulation. There are many people replying below More importantly, there are many threads below that this kind of thing is not good, and our country has been insulted in this respect.

To be honest, I don't think it's such a big deal. This place was originally a museum, so there are some words in it that are excusable. Maybe this place was originally a place to introduce a common sense of a certain culture. Isn't every museum like this? Hanging all kinds of pictures to tell us related stories one after another. As for the specific hanging of what image does not matter, and the introduction of American culture is not a big deal. And when introducing American culture, we usually use the White House, the Statue of Liberty, or some related buildings.

As the Chinese saying goes, there is nothing wrong in the world, but trouble after trouble of stupid peoples. There was nothing at first, but it stimulated some people’s sensitive nerves and felt that they were insulted, so they clamored to make some responses to resist these, and they used some more insulting words to describe this matter. These behave Can not show their strength but prove their weakness and low cultural quality. This can also be seen as a manifestation of a lack of confidence in their own civilization.

Recall that, in fact, there is a lot of the same news, which seems to have appeared repeatedly in recent years. For example, the famous Italian fashion brand, just because a model uses chopsticks to eat pizza, and they take it for granted to shoot a promotional film, in their impression, these may be a means to please the Chinese people to use Chinese culture. But maybe because they don’t understand Chinese culture, or because some people’s nerves are too sensitive, they hyped up the matter, which caused a lot of economic losses, and also caused a lot of news in the news. Lively discussion.

I don't know the background of the incident, whether there are any political considerations, but I think that simply from the performance point of view, this reflects the Chinese people's lack of confidence in their cultural background.

When we think of Thailand, we usually think of transvestite shows. If we have Thai friends, will we ask about related topics? After all, that's a feature of their country's tourism project, and maybe we don't have any malicious belittling ideas when we discuss this, just want to find a common topic we know to close our relationship. But I don’t know what the Thai people think after listening to it. After all, this matter may not be a very glorious thing, and may not be consistent with the values ​​of ordinary people, but as a novel tourism project, it is greatly interested in foreigners.

And what does China look like in the eyes of Western culture? In addition to buildings with Chinese characteristics, eating with chopsticks and our eating style is common information they can understand, so when they want to get closer to us, they are likely to discuss how you use chopsticks to harden So much food. I once talked to a foreign friend. He said, "Can you imagine how confused I felt when I was sitting in a restaurant and the waiter brought me a magazine and asked me to pick out what I wanted to eat?"? It's in English, but it's a magazine. We need to know that in western restaurants, it is usually a piece of paper, and the front and back are filled with all the food that the restaurant can provide, just like the Menu we see at the barbecue stalls on the roadside.

There are differences in culture. When we want to accept foreign cultures or want to promote our culture, we should be more tolerant, but many things happen, unfortunately. Many people are particularly sensitive and vulnerable. , Just like a heart made of glass. We should know that China's history is very long, we often mention that China has a history of 5000 years, and is the only ancient civilization that continues to this day. We should have the confidence to face all kinds of foreign eyes, some things may be out of good intentions, although their expression is not correct, as a big country, we should have the confidence to smile.

So I don’t know why our news orientation is like this. While we are propagating that we have a long history of 5,000 years, we have the most brilliant civilization in the world, and we have all kinds of people who can’t accept other people’s little bit of malice or The performance of kindness all show the real fragility of our hearts.

I hope we can slowly get better, we do not need to blindly worship foreign culture, but also can not be too light of our own. Fragile heart to make meaningless resistance, on the contrary, it shows that their inner weakness and self-confidence.

I hope that one day we can be strong enough to face any challenges.