"d. If a number of different believable people say you are doing something wrong and you are the only one who doesn’t see it that way, assume that you are probably biased. Be objective! While it is possible that you are right and they are wrong, you should switch from a fighting mode to an “asking questions” mode, compare your believability with theirs, and if necessary agree to bring in a neutral party you all respect to break the deadlock.
e. Meditate. I practice Transcendental Meditation and believe that it has enhanced my open-mindedness, higher-level perspective, equanimity, and creativity. It helps slow things down so that I can act calmly even in the face of chaos, just like a ninja in a street fight. I’m not saying that you have to meditate in order to develop this perspective; I’m just passing along that it has helped me and many other people and I recommend that you seriously consider exploring it.
d.假如很多可信的人都说你正在做错事，只 有你不这么看，你就要想想自己是不是看偏了。 一定要客观！虽然也有可能你是对的，他们都错 了，但你应该从吵架模式转换到“提问”模式，比 比你和其他人的可信度，在必要时同意让某个你 们都尊重的中立第三方来打破僵局。
e.冥想。我经常练习“超验冥想”，并相信这 让我变得更加头脑开放，能从更高的层面看问 题，镇定自若，富有创造力。冥想能让人看到慢
节奏的画面，所以即使面对混乱，我也能保持平 静，就像一场街头斗殴中的忍者一样。我不是说 必须通过冥想才能形成这种思维，只是分享我和 许多人的体验，并建议你认真考虑尝试冥想。"
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