Yesterday he texted me, I was shocked by the way he was thinking!
Ex-husband: So I have to start by saying I’m not trying to be mean, but I can’t give you full custody of the kids, that by law gives you full parental control and I would no longer be able to make decisions and so forth, so that’s out of the way.
Now my original plan was to take Siena over there with me, after getting her passport and necessities in place, I’d take her there with me. I would be taking her into a good home/situation, my wife knows and understands the situation. I made sure the surrounding city will be safe, adaptable for her, good doctors if we need them, good education if needed. My wife is an English teacher so she would help with any education. I would slowly adapt Siena to the food / life in India, I would make sure she is well taken care of and has what she needs. Now I’m not saying this will be forever, but for at least 2-3 maybe 4 years she’d be with us there as it’s a long term decision.
I would allow Skype videos whenever necessary and I would expect the same to see Brian, we would keep them both in touch as much as we could. I only thought about this because lele is older and you could work 5 days a week when he’s at school which would be much easier for you
Obviously I’m planning for 1 year out to try and get over there so there’s time to decide some things, BUT if needed I could get custody of sisi so that you can still get your benefits for lele, but you would still get to see her and be there for her
Obviously I would have to live without being physically here for lele, so we’d both be giving something to the move, which I think is fair.
Me: No, Siena is not going to live there.
I will never permit for that. Don’t care what does that woman do, Siena and Brian both need stay with me. You either give up custody or not move there. If I say I want to take both kids or Siena move to China, will you permit that? Absolutely not.
I didnot ask you to move in India, you are talking about something ridiculous, it is you that want to move there, you need pay for the price. Nobody else should pay for you. Either Siena or me, she is not leaving her mother, I am not leaving my daughter.
Damn I can not believe it, he just so selfish, asking a 2.5year baby to leave her mother and grandparents who adore her all the time? For a woman he only saw once and got engaged in another country? Jesus Christ, what is inside his brain? In terms of education and medical, America of course is much better than India! Plus, the crappy culture of India that mistreated women everywhere makes me sick! Hell NO! My daughter and my son both will stay with me! They are going nowhere!
I feel bad for my son, his Daddy acs like he wants to abandon him! I know that insane man likes girl, this was proved when I was pregnant, but my son is our first born, it just makes me feel horrible his Daddy does not like him as much as his sister!
I feel bad for my Mom, kids Grandma. She tolerated her son all the time and tried to cover him as much as she can, but her son never ever really thinks about how to be a good son. Look at all the crap things he did! Sigh! He will never grow up as a man! Worse than a kid!
I feel so proud that my son is naughty but he ‘s got a good heart always. He cares about me, cares about his sister, cares about his grandparents. He is super helper, always try to help the family. He is still young but definitely he takes more responsibility than his Daddy should. His Daddy is just a joke.
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