我曾在一个写作班带过一个中文系研究生,她文笔非常好,我对她抱有很高的期望。刚开始时,她积极完成听课和写作,而且能明显看到她的进步。然而学期进行到一半,她就不见了踪影。我问她怎么了,她告诉我:最近刚上映一部新剧,好看得不得了,根本停不下来,所以就没时间写作了。
当我鼓励她别荒废这么好的写作天分,希望她结束学习后再追剧,可她依然没有继续学习。过了一年,她又找我,希望我推荐一个好的学习班给她,她想重拾写作梦想。当时,跟她同期的学员,很多都签约了大平台,可她依然还停留在起步阶段。
懒惰,往往使人半途而废。我们下决心做一件事,开始时大多雄心万丈,但落实到行动上,却不是每个人都能坚持到底。
有人说,“失败只有一种,就是半途而废。”无论做任何事,只有坚持才可能有所收获。努力,不见得一定会成功,但是半途而废注定会失败。我们的人生,只有勤于学习、勤于思考、持续努力,才能充满活力。
I taught a graduate student in Chinese in a writing class, and she wrote so well that I had high expectations for her. In the beginning, she actively completed lectures and writing, and could see her progress. Halfway through the semester, however, she disappeared. When I asked her what was wrong, she told me that a new play just came out, and it was so good that it couldn't stop, so I didn't have time to write.
When I encouraged her not to waste such good writing talent and hoped that she could watch the drama after finishing her studies, she still did not continue to study. A year later, she came to me again, hoping that I could recommend a good course to her. She wanted to resume her dream of writing. At that time, many of her peers signed up for big platforms, but she was still in the initial stage.
Laziness often makes people give up halfway. Most of us start out ambitious when we set our minds to do something, but when it comes to action, not everyone follows through.
Some people say, "there is only one kind of failure, that is to give up halfway." No matter what you do, you can only gain by perseverance. Efforts, not necessarily successful, but give up halfway is doomed to failure. Our life can only be full of vitality if we study hard, think hard and keep working hard.
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有些人在打算做一件事时,总是找出各种理由一拖再拖。今天心情不好,晚上再刷会儿手机,明天开始吧。结果明日复明日,明日何其多,大好的时间被白白蹉跎,到头来一事无成。
懒惰的人常常找各种借口拖延,而真正自律的人,总能用各种方法克服内心的惰性。
前段时间,我在健身房碰到一位女士,面色蜡黄,神情憔悴。她给我看她年轻时候的照片,我惊叹她曾经那么充满活力。她说自己刚刚离了婚,心灰意冷,下班之后窝在沙发上看电视,什么都不想做。最近,闺蜜送了她一张健身卡,她勉勉强强才来的。
我指了指跟我一起来的同伴,告诉她,三年前,她跟你的处境一样。如今,站在我身边的同伴身材匀称、面色红润、活力满满。
有人说,生活坍塌容易,要想重新建立起来其实同样容易,只需要在对的事情上坚持下去,克服了懒惰,一切就会朝着好的方向发展。很多时候,人与人之间的差距不在于你的境遇有多糟糕,而在于对抗惰性的态度。
When some people set out to do something, they always find various reasons to put it off. I'm in a bad mood today, so I'll brush my cell phone again tonight and start tomorrow. So tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes and tomorrow comes.
Lazy people often find a variety of excuses to delay, and truly disciplined people, always use a variety of ways to overcome the inner inertia.
A while ago, I met a woman in the gym who looked sallow and haggard. She showed me pictures of her when she was young and I marveled at how full of life she used to be. She said she had just got divorced and was so depressed that she sat on the couch after work watching TV and didn't want to do anything. Recently, her best friend gave her a gym card, and she reluctantly came.
I pointed to my companion and told her that three years ago, she was in the same boat as you. Now my companion is trim, ruddy and energetic.
Some people say that it's easy for your life to collapse, but it's also easy to build it up again. You just have to stick to the right things, overcome laziness, and everything will turn out for the better. Most of the time, the difference between people is not how bad your situation is, but the attitude against inertia.
3、今日事,今日毕。”“言必行,行必果。”“切莫待明朝,万事成蹉跎。”前人留下的经典名句,是见证过无数失败后总结出来的至理名言,是对我们的谆谆教诲。
看过这样一句话:做事拖拖拉拉、爱找借口,虚度时光而碌碌无为,而人的计划、理想、抱负就在这拖拉与借口中变成了泡影。
人生最大的遗憾,是我本可以,却因为懒惰而荒废。一个人如果能努力克服惰性、矫正拖延,那么自信和快乐也会伴着幸福一起来临。
物要防腐,人要防懒。想要人生更美好,就从克服懒惰开始吧。
"Never put off till tomorrow what can be done today." "Do what you say and do what you do." "Don't wait for the Ming dynasty, everything is wasted." The classic sayings left by our predecessors are the wisdom summed up after witnessing countless failures, and are inculcation for us.
Read such a sentence: do things procrastinate, love to find an excuse, idle away time and do nothing, and people's plans, ideals, aspirations in this procrastination and excuse become a bubble.
The greatest regret in life is that I could have, but because of laziness and waste. If one works hard to overcome inertia and procrastination, confidence and happiness will come with happiness.
Keep things embalmed, and man against laziness. If you want to make your life better, start by overcoming laziness.
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