当前社会竞争压力大,且就业方向广泛,且更需要技术性人才,导致家长对孩子的期许值过高,且不想让孩子输在起跑线上,于是从小就开始了早教课程,想要自己的孩子能够比得上别人家的孩子,家长的过分期许就是孩子的压力。好不容易周末了,还得去各种补习班,兴趣班。
孩子们没有自己的看电视的时间,没有了和同学一起玩游戏,聚餐的时间,如此乏味的生活,让孩子们过分早熟,在马路上,到处可以见到,背着与自己身形极度不符的大书包的学生们,他们不是在补课班,就是再去补课班的路上。到处说是给学生减负,可那些补课班还是层出不穷。
面对这样的社会环境,孩子们的压力只会越来越大。但是哪一个家长能不心疼孩子?他们也知道他们对孩子过分要求,但是他们并不忍心给孩子减负,他们觉得为孩子报补考班就是为孩子好,那孩子能过上更好的生活,家长倾尽全力供孩子读书。这场战役不能说谁胜谁负,各自有各自的道理,
只求尽力而为,不过分苛求。
The current social competition pressure big, and the employment direction is widespread, and more in need of technical talent, led to the parents to the child's expected value is too high, and don't want to let the children lose at the starting line, so the nappy curriculum since childhood, and they want their children to compare with other people's children, parents too much expectation is the child's pressure. Finally, I had to go to all kinds of cram schools and interest classes on the weekend.
Children watch TV does not have its own time, not playing games with my classmates, dinner time, such a boring life, let the children too early, on the road, can be seen everywhere, carrying inconsistent with ourselves very big bag of the students, they are not in the coaching courses, is the way to a coaching courses. Everywhere say to reduce the burden of the students, but those classes or emerge in endlessly, in the face of such a social environment, the pressure of children will only increase. But which parent can help his child? They also know that they are too demanding on the child, but they do not have the heart to reduce the burden of the child, they think for the child to sign up for the make-up class is good for the child, the child can live a better life, the parents do their best to provide for the child to study. This battle cannot be said to be won or lost, each has its own reasons,
just do your best, not too demanding.
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