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I don't want to talk with him an

I don't want to talk with him an

作者: 抹茶社长 | 来源:发表于2021-11-10 08:00 被阅读0次

好久没过这样沟通如此累的经历,不是同事,不是朋友,而是亲生的同母同父弟弟。

他高高在上的姿态,让我无法开口继续与他聊天。

人与人沟通,是需要有平等基础的,如果没有这个基础,沟通了半天,全在费事'沟',聊了将近一个小时没有通过。

跟从小一起长大的弟弟聊天都会如此,何况是其他人或是陌生人呢?

当他事业低谷,需要家人支持的时候,感觉老弟特别亲切,与他互动。可是,此刻是我事业低谷期,他事业顺利发展期,找他商量一些事情,一副高高在上的口气。

我心中虽然明白,老弟这样的行为是无意识的,可是,依然会觉得难过。

圣严法师《找回自己》书中提到过,自我成长最好的办法,应该是为了他人设想,如果对方不能接受,那就包容他,能包容他,也是自己的一种成长。

我想,他如果可以接受此时此刻的我,是他的成长。而我,面对老弟那样高高在上的教导,站在他的角度设想,接受他,包容他,也是我的一种成长。

一边流着眼泪,一边在键盘上敲打着情绪,写到这里,情绪好了不少。

自己加油!


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