活在这个世界，会产生各种各样的复杂互动。随着个人涉足领域的扩宽，

3.Seeker: Much of the anxiety I experience comes through my relationships. Isn't it reasonable to expect some understanding from other people?

慕道者：我经历的很多焦虑都来自于我的人际关系。期待别人的理解是不合理的吗？

Sadhguru:  When  you  live  in  this  world,  there  are  various  types  of  complex interactions happening. As your field of play increases, the complexity of interaction also goes on increasing. If you're just sitting in a cubicle, working on your computer with only one other person, you need only a little understanding; but if you're managing a thousand people, you need a vast understanding of everybody. Now suppose you're managing a thousand people and you want all these people to understand you, then you're not going to manage anything. You need to understand the limitations and the capabilities of these thousand people and do what you can; only then will you have the power to move the situation the way you want it to go. If you're waiting for these thousand people to understand you and act, it is only a pipe dream; it's never going to happen.

萨古鲁：活在这个世界，会产生各种各样的复杂互动。随着个人涉足领域的扩宽，互动的复杂性也不断增加。如果你只是坐在一个小隔间里，和另外一个人一起在电脑上工作，你只需要一点理解力；但是如果你管理着一千个人，你需要对每个人都有一个广泛的理解。现在假设你管理着一千个人，希望所有这些人都能理解你，那么你不会管好任何事情的。你需要了解这一千人的局限和能力，并尽你所能；只有这样，你才能按照你希望的方式来造势。如果你等待这一千人理解你，并按你的期待行事，这是做白日梦，永远不会发生。