迷失方向，寻找自我

昨天在扇贝上看到一个关于公路旅行的短片，觉得蛮不错的，献给大家。迷失方向，寻找自我。

There's something weird about going on a road trip. Second you lock the door and you head out, you're in a different mindset. Everything you see is different. The way you perceive the world is a bit different. Even the most meaningless things can turn into a crazy story.

Why can't life be like a road trip? Why can't we live in a state of mind where everything is fun and adventures, and the world continually surprises us. And we let that happiness flow in.

There's something powerful that allows you to release your tight grip on life and just relax. Stay in present and enjoy everything that enters your experience, taking in each moment seperately, and giving unlimited potential for each situation to flourish into something like getting a flat tire, or an unfortunatetrip to the hospital or getting completely lost in the middle of night, that makes the adventure special and unforgettable. Because after all it isn't the destination you're seeking, it's the journey. And on that journey, you learn a new let go. You see and you feel things differently, and your mindset, your attitude your actions are all driven by a place in your soul that is simple, young, happy and free.

You don't know where your decisions come from, yet they just feel right, unlike important decisions back home, which require you to take in all the right information and critically make sure you're doing the right thing. While on the road trip, you detach from that process completely, the need to be perfect, the need to be right, you need to look or act a certain way, you just let go. And it's in this mindset that you are truly present happy.

Getting lost and finding yourself. Just something a lot of people don't let themselves do. When they wake up one day, looking back on their life's memories and search for the things they felt truly alive and free. Don't let that be you. Create a life that you drop the stress and baggage you carry.

Go on an adventure, you can always start a road trip.

公路旅行有个神奇之处，当在你关上车门的那一瞬间，整个人精神状态就已经发生了变化，眼中的一切都不同了，认识世界的方式也出现了改变。即使原本看来最无聊的事情，在这时也变得疯狂。

人生为什么不能像公路旅行一样？我们为什么不能一直生活在事事有趣，充满冒险的状态里？世界不断给我们带来惊喜，而我们又让这种幸福像流水般连绵不绝。

会有一股强大的力量让你能够释放紧绷的压力并放松自己。活在当下，享受每一样进入你生活中的事物，享受每一刻。在各种处境下，都任其发挥无限的可能铸就独特的经历。有趣的是，有时仅仅是车胎爆了，或是身体欠佳去医院，或是深更半夜迷了路，正是这些事让生活更特殊又更难忘。因为，我们追寻的不是目的地，而是一段旅程。在旅程中，你学会放手，以一种不同的方式看待世界感受生命。你的精神状态，态度和行动所受到的驱使均来自灵魂中年轻，快乐和自由。

你也不知道自己做这项决定的原因，就是感觉与以往不同，不像在家里。做决定时需要你获取所有正确信息，谨慎地确保自己做出正确的事。而在公路旅行时，你会完全脱离那个过程，不需要完美，不需要正确，你可以抛开一切。有了这种心态，你才会感受到真正的快乐。

迷失方向发现自我。很多人就是不让自己这样做，当他们醒来的那一天，反观自己的一生，在那一刻才知道活着和自由才能够定义自己。不要做这样的人，为自己创造能让自己放下压力和包袱的生活。去探险吧，你可以从公路旅行开始！

以上是英文中文描述。其实我想表达的是：无论阴天晴天，无论困境顺境，我们都把它当做一种经历，以享受的心态去面对他们，创造灿烂美好人生！

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