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今天练习
无助就是别人能做到,自己做不到。很多时候我们都习惯性的比较,她比我漂亮,他比我有钱,她学习成绩比我好。中国的字很博大精深,“比”字是两把刀,一把插向我,一把插向你,都是两败俱伤,都非常的无助。当我们想向孩子说,你看隔壁小明……
请停下来,我们不可以避免比较,但是我们不跟别人比较,我们跟自己比较,今天我考了80分,我目标是100分,下次考了85分,离目标又进了一步。这种比较会让自己按照实际情况来为自己设定行动计划,不会陷入我不好的情绪里,不能自拔。
请列举一下你爸妈都是怎样拿你跟别人比较的,我们总结出来,就会停止这种比较遗传给孩子,让我们的孩子更有自信!
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