原文：
A sense of Community of shared future
What do people think of when they criticize people? Do they feel superior to the other person that is being criticized? Do they feel so angry that they kept yelling and pouring angry words out?
当您指责别人时，您怎么想的呢？对于被批评者，您是否傲慢以待呢？您会否歇斯底里，会否破口大骂？
It is possible that the more you criticize, the worse the relationship between you and the other person and the more difficult it is to solve problems and change the other person. I first had this epiphany last night.
昨晚我第一次有了顿悟。批评得越多，关系越差，这是可能的。而且，想要解决问题和改变他人的想法，也会变得越来越困难。
Maomao finished practicing writing 5 and showed it to me, i first gave him positive feedback, including the bottom part was well written, then I gave him a polite suggestion that he should write the slash in a more vertical direction. He seemed to get a bit upset and started to show his angry expression.
毛毛完成了数字5的书写，我看了看，先给了他一个积极正面的回馈，包括写出格的部分，写得好的，我也给了夸赞。然后，对于字的线条写歪的，我给了他严厉的批评。他看上去有点沮丧，并且展示出他生气的表情。
Normally, I would get angry as well and start to criticize him for being impatient and unsympathetic, and he would cry even louder.
倘若是平时，我也会生气，并且开始冷漠无情地批评他的没耐心。可能，这时候，他就会哇哇大哭。
But last night I responded to his anger with cuddling and kissing, and also comforted him that it was OK to make mistakes,mummy used to make much more mistakes when I was of your age.
但是，昨晚，对于他的愤怒，我只是给予亲吻并安慰。我对他说：“宝贝，没事的。犯点错很正常。当妈妈和你这么小地时候，犯的错误，比你还多。”
His eyes lighted up and a smile appeared on his face. Quickly he minced back to his desk and rewrite the numbers.
他的眼睛，像是被点亮了，脸上也露出了笑容。很快，他婉转地回到书桌旁，继续重写那些数字。
明明有话说：
如何正确地处理情绪，绿叶用她的方式，给我们指出了一个绝佳的办法。除此外，作者还有一段英语，若是您还有兴趣，不如回到原文去试一试，看能不能读懂嘛？
亲爱的手机屏幕前的您，天天跟着我的翻译一起阅读，应该还是有长足的进步的。学习英语，有一千一万种方法，但是其中最好的方法，还是亲自读，大声地读出来。
加油哦，只要学习不放弃，您总有一天，和我一样，哪怕读英文原著，也会轻轻松松。生命不息，学习不止。
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