[if !supportLists]1. [endif]The first sentence come tomy mind is the famous idiom in “The GreatGatsby”
[if !supportLists]2. [endif]"Whenever you feellike criticizing any one,just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you'vehad."
[if !supportLists]3. [endif]In which we learned thatit is very hard to have a good knowing of someone else
[if !supportLists]4. [endif]So ,how to read a personat first sight ? By appearance or by betutiful sexy voice?
[if !supportLists]5. [endif]In common ,when I meet a new friend ,they often ask following questions
[if !supportLists]6. [endif]“What’s your name “ “Andy
Hu“
[if !supportLists]7. [endif]“where are you from “”hubei huanggang”
[if !supportLists]8. [endif]‘OH,you must be veryclever “’why “
[if !supportLists]9. [endif]“for，there is an od saying going like this “Nine years in the sky,the above ground
[if !supportLists]10. [endif]Hubei guy” “no ,not really,in fact ,I am as foolish as a fool”
[if !supportLists]11. [endif]“oh ,really ?what’s yourmajor “
[if !supportLists]12. [endif]“education “,”why not be ateacher ?”
[if !supportLists]13. [endif]“I don’t know,but why Ishould be “
[if !supportLists]14. [endif]“so what’s your job “
[if !supportLists]15. [endif]“wemedia writer” “oh it isa high-profit industry,I heard mimeng makes millions
[if !supportLists]16. [endif]Of dollars every year.really ?what about you ?”…….
[if !supportLists]17. [endif]Similar talks happens inmy life over and over again.
[if !supportLists]18. [endif]For example ,in theChinese new year I took part in a blind date.
[if !supportLists]19. [endif]Before I appeared
[if !supportLists]20. [endif] the matchmaker said to me “ there is a boy,handsome well-education and good job and good family,he suit you ver much! “
[if !supportLists]21. [endif]I have no way but gave up.
[if !supportLists]22. [endif]as soon as I met him ,I dislike this guy by my sixth sense. I don’t knowwhy
[if !supportLists]23. [endif]when we talked with eachother ,it confirmed my conclusion firmly !
[if !supportLists]24. [endif]so I told myself :”never definea person in other people’s mouth ,you mustconfirm the facts yourself”
[if !supportLists]25. [endif]On the other way ,It puzzles me why
[if !supportLists]26. [endif]Peope look sosuperficial when theymeet a new friend,and it seems they can’t wait
[if !supportLists]27. [endif]to Make quick decisions about the person atfirst sight in their mind ,reagrdles ofthe correctness
[if !supportLists]28. [endif]Later ,i read some refeerence books,it tells me
that it is a Cultural Label phenomenon.
[if !supportLists]29. [endif]Like hometown /gender /major /job /hobbies can
help to read a person at first sight!
[if !supportLists]30. [endif] to some
degrees,it is an effiencient way.
[if !supportLists]31. [endif]For our brains system,only we know the person
well can it really make us feel safe to get along with this guy.
[if !supportLists]32. [endif]but it Is a general impression, if you really
want to know a person well ,you must pay more attention on the person consistently.
[if !supportLists]33. [endif]For example ,if you want to know a person is a
good guy or not ,you can do as following steps.
[if !supportLists]34. [endif]Firstly,you can get the
information as the in interviewer
Likethe question above ,where are you from ?what’s your major?and so on
[if !supportLists]35. [endif]Secondly,you can scan his wechat circe and pay attentionto his talks and his hobbies his friends or even his habbits and hishistory.and so on
[if !supportLists]36. [endif]Least but not least,never depend to know apeople well for good.
[if !supportLists]37. [endif]For people will change with time and respond to
different occations.
[if !supportLists]38. [endif] get asmuch information as you can help you toanalyse!
[if !supportLists]39. [endif]But you can only difine a person correctly ,only
when he finished his time on earth.
[if !supportLists]40. [endif]the knowleadge of culture and experience can help us a lot,like traveling and commoncommunicaion in a safe way ,
[if !supportLists]41. [endif]it can be a good ice-breaker.but if you want to
have a total understanding of
someone
[if !supportLists]42. [endif]which is a project,we have to learn through our
lifetime!
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