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写在最后的话 :
也许你看过不少讲「沟通」的文章、书籍,它们都在教我们如何更好地“说”。
明确自己的诉求,表达情绪而不是带着情绪去表达,带着理解的意愿去询问,…… 但作为一名心理咨询师,也是身边人的朋友、同事、亲人……我总是更好奇:我们如何更好地“听”?
因为真正的倾听,是一件特别美好的事。就像诗人马克·内波所写:聆听就是轻柔地附身,并愿意被我们所听到的话语改变。
真正的倾听,是身处对话中的我们,能给予和获得的最大的善意。
真正的倾听,也很不容易。我们需要放下成见,打开心态;不以自我为中心;在对话中保持静默。
希望漫画中提到的一些小方法,能为你的对话带入更多的倾听。由你开始,让爱与滋养在彼此之间流动。
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