心里学家的建议 必看

1.Stand up straight with your shoulders back站直了，抬头挺胸，直面人生的苦难2.Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping像对待你爱的人那样对待自己，接受自己的丑陋3.Make friends with people who want the best for you结交真心对你好的朋友，你也要真心待人4.Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today与昨天的自己比较，而不是今天的别人5.Donot let your children do anything that makes you dislike them怪物家长培养怪物孩子，不要让你的孩子做你都厌恶的事情6.Set yourhouse in perfect order before you criticize the world愤世嫉俗的人总想要改变他人，在抱怨这个世界之前请先收拾好自己

7.Pursue what is meaningful(notwhatisexpedient)追求真正的意义，拒绝走捷径，功利主义会带你走向虚无8.Tell the truth–or,atleast,don'tlie说实话，至少不要撒谎，谎言会将人间变成地狱9.Assume that the person you are listening to might know something youdon't倾听他人，学会谦卑，三人行必有我师10.Be precise in your speech言辞精准，将生命的秩序从混沌中带出11.Donot bother children when they are skateboarding不要打扰正在玩滑板的孩子，生活中我们都需要勇敢一些12.Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street当你在街上遇到一只小猫，摸摸它，感恩这个世界依然存在美好的事物13.结语：没有人能做到完美的良善，但是，虽不能至，心向往之；我们能做到的是，不断的在追求良善的道路上砥砺前行，直至末了。