Lin and Oscar are in a coffee shop.
Oscar is telling Lin a story when he notices that she's asleep .
Lin, are you asleep?
what? Oh… Sorry. I'very been very tired lately.
Oh, I know what will help you.
what?
I just started boxing classes!
You should come with me tomorrow. I promise, it will give you more energy.
The next day, Lin meets Oscar outside his boxing class.
Oscar is wearing shorts and boxing gloves.
Wow, you have your own boxing gloves?
Of course! I'm a real boxer! Now let's go inside.
Later, Lin is in the class .She looks tired. The teacher walks over to her .
Are you OK?
No,I'm extremely tired. I don't have any more energy.
Are you new to this class?
Yeah,Oscar invited me
Who's Oscar?
That man over there.
Lin looks around the room.Oscar is gone.
Lin finds Oscar drinking a smoothie at the store next to the gym.
Oscar, what are you doing?
After class, I always get a smoothie.
But you didn't finish the class.
I finished half of it . I'll do the whole class next time .That was only third class.
You'very only been to three boxing classes?
Yeah, the class is OK, but this smoothie has changed my life ! Here taste it.
Lin drinks some of the smoothie.
Wow, how much sugar is in this?
Two hundred grams.And as much caffeine as three cups of coffee!
Don't you feel great?!
Yeah ,I love boxing!
琳在奥斯卡的怂恿下也去上拳击课。去了才发现，奥斯卡根本不是爱拳击，而是爱上了健身房隔壁店的奶昔。
琳在品尝过奶昔后，也“爱上了拳击”
显而易见，他们爱的不是拳击，只是需要给自己以及别人一个高大上一点的借口。
也有不那么容易看出来的，甚至当事人自己也以为是真爱的，你要深扒一下，完全不是那么一回事。
比如谈恋爱。你到底是爱上的和你谈恋爱的这个人，还是仅仅谈恋爱这件事？大部分的人，特别是青少年，只是喜欢在恋爱中的自己，更喜欢品尝的是自己在恋爱中的各种情绪…
所以，很多家长视孩子的早恋为洪水猛兽，以为阻止孩子和对方接触就能阻止早恋。
我记得CJL刚上初中的时候，有天回来告诉我，说她好像喜欢上了班上的一个人。
我和她聊了聊，我说，不要轻易下决定，你先好好想一想，你喜欢的是这个人 还是仅仅喜欢“喜欢”这种情绪？
她观察、思考了两天，得出结论，她喜欢的不是具体的人，而是抽象的情绪。
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