Balance

Today i think i have done one thing successfully, that is about getting a solution to a problem what was always confusing me.

The problem may also happen on most of working mothers. It's so difficult to balance the life and work, and combining with my previous experience, it is the most difficult obstacle when the child is small. Because the economic pressure and the self-accusation missing the growth of children almost tear me in half. It seems the situation don't have any changes whatever i do.

Surprisingly, the attempt that i made today          gives me hope.

Yesterday I talked with my mom about our concern，then i realize that my appearance complicated my son. Before i came home, when she cooked, the little boy can play by himself. But now things change, she always worry that my son will interrupt my important work. Therefore she becomes too anxious to do any house work, it makes her feel bad and confusing, why one more caregiver make take care of  child more difficult.

In the night, i told her which period in the morning, noon, afternoon is idle for me, and i will take care of this little naughty boy. She can do anything she want. As result, we seem own more time, i have quiet time for working, mon can do household chores without interruption.

The coomunication and plan management isin the family.