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Education from an early age is to be kind. Always thought that the repayment of goodwill must be goodwill. I have always believed that good can change evil and sincerity can change sincerity.

But as adults, they find that the world is not so simple.

Good will is often demonized, kidnapped and used.

Kindness often becomes the weakness of others to hurt and attack you.

You sow good causes and reap not necessarily good results.

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I remember when I was a child, my family was very poor. Even an old dress would be regarded as a treasure. Children's clothes are often worn by big hair, and then picked up and worn by two or three hair. If they are really broken, they can be patched. If they can't be patched, they can also be used as soles, vamps and insoles without any waste.

I have a cousin and four brothers. Only one of them has been admitted to university. After graduation, he is assigned to work in the provincial capital. At that time, the family came out with a royal grain eater, whose status was no less than that of Wu Zhongyuan in ancient times. It was not only the pride of the whole family, but also the hope of the whole family.

As the eldest uncle, he did not disappoint the public. After work, he often brought money and food to his home, which won the praise of everyone in the big family.

On one occasion, he sent back his old clothes in a big package and allowed the three brothers to share their own clothes. But it was this bag of old clothes that turned the three brothers in the family into enemies.

Because money can be divided equally, grain can be divided equally, only this old clothes can not be divided equally. Because of uneven distribution, the three brothers had a big fight.

It made my uncle very angry, disappointed and sad. He did not expect that his kindness would do bad things, and he did not expect that a few old clothes could smash the brotherhood of so many years.

For a long time, he didn't want to go back home and face three brothers.

Although this was an old story decades ago, it still happens from time to time.

I have a developed countryman who seldom returns to his hometown. Even when he returns, he stays in a hotel and comes and goes in a hurry, so as not to disturb the countrymen as much as possible. The old family did not think well of him. They said that he was stingy and would not recognize his fellow countrymen if he had money.

On one occasion, I was invited to stay for a day after passing through his city because of traveling. Speaking of returning home, he expressed his pains.

Over the years, he has struggled in different places. In fact, he has had a very difficult life. It can be said that every penny he earns is very hard. But the people in his hometown only see his bright, do not know the blood and tears behind the bright.

Today, he is asked to donate 200,000 yuan for road construction in the village. Tomorrow, who has a tumor will ask him to donate 100,000 yuan, and the day after tomorrow, who will donate 50,000 yuan?

Everyone thinks that if you have so much money, donation is nothing but a drop in the bucket. You can donate to Zhang San. Why can't you donate to Li Si? Whoever opens his mouth, he can't refuse and bargain. In the end, it's right to turn him into a money giver. If he doesn't give money, he will be rich and unkind.

Unburdened, he had to flee.

Therefore, the villagers who ask for money have become rational masters, and those who donate money have become street mice.

An entrepreneur once said in an interview that I would rather donate anonymously than publicly do charity, because that would be tantamount to setting fire to myself and making myself a target of public criticism.

He said that without talking about outside public opinion, first of all, we can't get through the relationship between relatives and friends. Everyone will question that you can donate money to strangers you don't know. Why not give it to relatives and friends you know?

All he said was true.

In China, there are not many public charities. Because if you do charity high-profile, people will first question your starting point, for fame or what other intentions?

Moreover, the media will be desperate to find clues, sit down and do charity is a misguided attempt to prove the correctness of their doubts.

For example, Chen Guangbiao, although the total donation of real gold and silver has exceeded 2 billion yuan, although praised as "the best in China" by the media, is still constantly being pinched. The billionaire, who announced that he would donate all his property after his death, has been a high-profile philanthropist, and has been playing down a lot in recent years because he can't withstand the pressure from the outside world.

No gold is barefoot, no man is perfect. If you want to commit a crime, why not?

Never leave,It's not yet late summer At the time of Wenchuan Earthquake, as the first donors, Liu Dehua thought at first that it was only a minor natural disaster. In addition, other people only donated 100,000 yuan, in order to take into account everyone's face, they also donated 100,000 yuan. Later, when he learned that the disaster was serious, he quietly donated another 50 million dollars and organized a star relief charity show.

But Liu Dehua was scolded for donating only 100,000 yuan.

I would like to know, those who scold him, what did they do for the Wenchuan earthquake?

The world is strange. People who do good are often scolded, and those who do nothing are the ones who scold most fiercely.

It's easy to be a moral judge of others, but difficult to be one's own.

Never leave,It's not yet late summer Sun Li, out of kindness, came out of his mother to support a student to study, but because the other side demanded too much, he stopped donating shortly after he went to college. So the recipient published a long article accusing Sun Li's mother and daughter.

Later, the matter was exposed by the media and made a lot of noise. The direct consequence is that Sun Li would rather rescue the cat and dog than donate.

Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of straw rope.

Never leave,It's not yet late summer Presumably many people have forgotten Congfei. At that time, as a singer, he used his own singing money to donate a lot of children who were going to drop out of school. Unfortunately, Cong Fei suffered from cancer in 2005 and had to stop donating money.

It is said that some donors deliberately chose silence and avoidance while others complained that he interrupted his donation and accused Cong of being unreliable.

No one thought for Cong Fei how difficult it was for him and his family, who had cancer and two young girls on their knees, and NO donors offered to help Cong Fei, although some of them had already come out of trouble.

Cong Fei died in 2006, when her second daughter was only six months old.

I don't know how he felt when he died at the age of 37. Would he regret all his kindness, good thoughts and good deeds? Would he be disappointed in this cold world?

Never leave,It's not yet late summer Originally, in this world, not all evil can be well-meaning; not all good can be rewarded. Like a farmer and a snake.

Goodness is the light and warmth that sustains the world and the gentlest touch that brightens the world. Without goodness, the world must be a miserable hell, no, more miserable than hell.

But at the same time, goodness is also a rare resource. It can only be dried up gradually by asking too much for it, not knowing gratitude and not knowing how to repay it.

Therefore, we should learn to use the limited goodness on the right person and not let the goodness feed the dog. For those who know what they are grateful for, those who only know how to get and never give, and those who only have themselves and no one else in mind, it's better to save a little.