Many of us were told from an early age that , be it at school or in life , " you learn from your mistakes ". But is this actually true ? The short answer is ' yes ' – failure can be a teachable moment . But learning from our mistakes is , in reality , very hard because we don't like to fail . It doesn't feel good , so we react to failure in impulsive and emotional ways , like giving up on a task prematurely , telling ourselves we don't care whether we succeed , or finding fault with the task itself . This is self-protective , according to Hallgeir Sjåstad , a professor of psychology and leadership at the Norwegian School of Economics .
我们中的许多人从小就被告知，无论是在学校还是在生活中，“你从错误中吸取教训”。但这真的是真的吗？简短的回答是“是的”——失败是一个可教的时刻。但实际上，从错误中吸取教训是非常困难的，因为我们不喜欢失败。失败的感觉并不好，所以我们以冲动和情绪化的方式对失败做出反应，比如过早地放弃一项任务，告诉自己我们不在乎我们是否成功，或者对任务本身挑剔。根据挪威经济学院心理学和领导力教授 Hallgeir Sjåstad 的说法，这是一种自我保护。
1、prematurely adv.过早地，贸然地
2、Norwegian n. 挪威人、挪威语 adj. 挪威人的、挪威的、挪威语的
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