我们依赖于各种关系——与人、与理念、与思想体系的关系。为什么?
其实我认为依赖并不是问题,问题在于某种深层因素让我们心生依赖。如果我们能把该因素揭示出来,那么心理依赖以及苦苦挣脱依赖就毫无意义了,所有因依赖而衍生的问题都将烟消云散。
那么,深层问题是什么呢?是内心的憎恨、恐惧与孤独吗?心是否知道,它在躲避这些状态?只要孤独感还未被理解、感受、洞察、化解……你随意用什么措辞,只要孤独感依然在,那么依赖心理就难以避免,你就不能回归自在,你就绝不能自己发现真谛,发现道。
——克里希那穆提《生命书:365静心日课》(The Book of Life: Daily Meditations with Krishnamurti)
There Is Some Deeper Factor That Makes Us Depend
We know we depend—on our relationship with people or on some idea or on a system of thought. Why?
… Actually, I do not think dependence is the problem; I think there is some other deeper factor that makes us depend. And if we can unravel that, then both dependence and the struggle for freedom will have very little significance; then all the problems which arise through dependence will wither away.
So, what is the deeper issue? Is it that the mind abhors, fears, the idea of being alone? And does the mind know that state which it avoids? So long as that loneliness is not really understood, felt, penetrated, dissolved—whatever word you may like to use—so long as that sense of loneliness remains, dependence is inevitable, and one can never be free; one can never find out for oneself that which is true, that which is religion.
MARCH 3
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