Live and learn

Live and learn.

Why I choose this topic today? It is due to my talking with my younger sister today. She thinks feel gloomy and does not know what to do. She does not know what she could do and what kind of book she should read. To conclude, she has no direction now. In my opinion, it is mainly because her thinking goes in a wrong way. And she becomes to believe that as a woman no need to learn more. As long as she could take care of the children, it is enough. I can't agree with it. Women could do things as much as men except the strength in nature. Even the strength, women could be stronger than men after the exercise. I always encourage my younger sister to learn and improve herself. But it seems she has been a bit stubborn and could not find no direction to improve herself. She has no idea what she could do and has already believed that she is disabled to accomplish sth.

While talking with her, I also feel helpless how to persuade her to establish  the confidence.

Think it carefully and I try to find the reasons why it becomes in this way for my younger sister. To some extent, It was just the case when I was at her age. So I think it is also a good chance for myself to think it carefully.

Mind decides everything. What you think will just guide what you will do. So the first issue to analyze  is the mind. How your mind is formed to the present thinking? The experiences you have got for so many years and people around you, who most count.

The experiences are mainly in the learning period, working part and daily life. You can hardly feel learning could you help in some way, and people around you are also negligent in learning. Then you are affected and become one of them.

Behavior is the result of your thinking. Then you get the relative experience accordingly, which will also affect your thought.

Character is also one of the reason. One is easy to be content, which will hardly go on learning for sth. while it is not so definite to make the benefit.

And I think desire is also the reason. If without strong desire to get sth., you will hardly to do sth. for a long time.

How to improve? The most important thing is the interest. Just find one way to conquer. Find one thing what you could be indulged in. Let time go, and you have no feeling. I recommended her how about writing sth. everyday. But she said it was useless. While she once wrote and nothing to help. By hearing these words, I was speechless.

I think my grandpa is really a good example. Now he is already 90 years old. He still learns every day, read news papers and some novels regarding the Great Culture Reform. But my younger sister could not agree with my grandpa insome ideas and behavior.So she also thinks it is useless.

For one point, it is very clear that my younger sister thinks unless the learning is useful then she will do. Otherwise, she thinks it is useless. Once I also thought in this ways as well. But now I have leant that not sure what kind of learning is useful. Being useful, to some extent it means which could be transfer to the treasure. Just keeping learning, a bit and a bit. And one day, you will find you are the one who you want to be.

The later, the mind is more clear. But sleeping early would be helpful to the health. So it is the end.

Wish you all are fine.

Good night.

真是奇葩了 2017年8月15日 23:07