Day 17
Mandy Len Catron: Falling in love is the easy part
Falling in love is easy._腾讯视频
按照设定的pattern，今天主要关注三个维度中的第二个维度，演讲方式，我以面和体的形式记录下自己的理解。
面（段）
主题
这个演讲最吸引人的其实还是主题，因为会让人好奇，同时也是一部分程度上颠覆了人们的某些认知让人惊讶。
"To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This." And the article is about a psychological study designed to create romantic love in the laboratory, and my own experience trying the study myself one night last summer.
理论和实践相结合
讲者分析了这个现象背后的科学理论支持，并且以自己的亲生实践和她认识的一些人的实践来支持这个理论和现象。
Dr. Arthur Aron first wrote about these questions in this study here in 1997, and here, the researcher's goal was not to produce romantic love. Instead, they wanted to foster interpersonal closeness among college students, by using what Aron called "sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personalistic self-disclosure."
体（章）
这个演讲比较平铺直叙，有很多自己的小故事，我觉得最大的亮点还是在于她的主题（自己发表在纽约时报上引起轰动的文章），而且毕竟爱是人类永恒的主题。整体演讲架构我的理解如下：
- 引出'blockbuster'
I published this article in the New York Times Modern Love column in January of this year. "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This." ...So the article was published online on a Friday evening, and by Saturday, this had happened to the traffic on my blog. And by Sunday, both the Today Show and Good Morning America had called. Within a month, the article would receive over 8 million views, and I was, to say the least, underprepared for this sort of attention.
- 说明理论支持
Dr. Arthur Aron first wrote about these questions in this study here in 1997, and here, the researcher's goal was not to produce romantic love. Instead, they wanted to foster interpersonal closeness among college students, by using what Aron called "sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personalistic self-disclosure."
- 自己的实践
if you want it, the short version of the story of my relationship is this: a year ago, an acquaintance and I did a study designed to create romantic love, and we fell in love, and we are still together, and I am so glad.
- 升华主题
But what I have instead is the chance to make the choice to love someone, and the hope that he will choose to love me back, and it is terrifying, but that's the deal with love.
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