收获第二个best，记录一下
上周五在头马进行了P3-stage1演讲， 做回顾总结如下：
准备阶段：
本次准备阶段真不知道要说什么主题，后来应用了Jack和Marvin多次提及的原则：选取自己的亲身经历作为主题，一则熟悉，二则更易引起共鸣。于是进一步细想，自己身上又怎样的经历比较有意思，能引起别人的好奇心的和关注呢？回顾最近经历，决定选择相亲作为主题。因为有过两次比较有特色的相亲的经历，所以内容上应该没有问题，但是以怎样一种结构展示呢，又想说明什么问题呢？受刘芳主席《看见》的演讲启发，决定以时间顺序，平铺直叙，这次先写个稿子讲出来，后面再不断改进，看看大家的反馈进行优化。
进行阶段：
这次session1部分第一个演讲，也不用等待时感受自己的小焦虑了。演讲前两天和一天分别做了计时和自己给自己的实验，所以进行时还比较顺利。中间进行中，Lily插了一句“but we like guandan”，自己突然就不知道说什么好了，笑了笑就过去了，看来自己的应变能力还有待加强。整个演讲用时不到6分钟，时间上OK。
反思阶段：
Razor: 中间大家可能发笑或者已经发笑的地方要给予缓冲时间，可以暂停一下，等待反应，这也是和观众的互动，而我的表现有些着急了，直接就进行后面的演讲了。
Kira:站台走位方面欠缺，演讲时需要走动，所以需要学习一下和观众的互动，一个演讲应该至少换三个走位。
Jack:新的演讲总是容易的，但是把旧的稿子精修总是更难。这篇演讲话题选取得比较好，总评得了best，应该继续修改精进，后面争取把它会变成一篇更优质的讲稿。
附稿件全文：
What My blind date told me
Good evening, my dear friends. As you know, as a leftover lady, you have to put up with the blind dates your parents arrange for you. And dating with a stranger sometimes is boring, totally a waste of time, while sometimes is interesting. Maybe we can conclude that it like a box of chocolate, you never know whatyou are going to get.
The first guy I met is a civil servant, who hasalready own a car and a house, being the kind of person who can offersufficient material conditions meeting his future mother-in-law’s expectations.While when I asked, what do you like to do at weekends or when you are free?Palying guandan, he said. I only knew Guandan is a poker game, so I asked, whydo you like Guandan and do you have other hobby, like doing sports? Nonono, Ido not like sports, my colleagues and my boss are all like Guandan, and we playit whenever we are free. Whenever you are free? Sometime like weekday? Yes, weare not busy at weekday, most of the time it is Ok if you come to office lateor go home early. So you like you work? Yes, it is easy and I feel relaxed, Ilike the work like this. Oh, I am totally jealous of you. While actually Ithought, he cannot be my Mr.right, because I do not like an easy work, a sendatarylifestytle with no sports and the boring Guandan. We had too much disagreementon these matters.
So after a month, I met a second guy. He is aninvestment manager in a venture capital firm, who is long engaged in thefinancial field. After a few casual words, he asked, you work in a biologycompany? Yes I do. So how much do you earn very month? I told him anapproximate figure before he asked, how much bonus do you earn very year? Nottoo much, although I told him a round figure, it seemed impolite to talk aboutmoney when you dated with someone at the first time. And as we talked more, heasked more about my parents’ and grandparents’ jobs, their titles and myex-boyfriend. Actually I had no ex-boyfriend. Maybe he treated me as hisinvestee, examining everything about me rigorously with a strong sense ofresponsibility. While I was not someone who need his investment, so the wholetalk seemed weird for me. And as you can guess, it was not only my first datewith him, but the last date as well.
These two blind dates did not provide me with a Mr. Right, while I knew what kind of people was not suitable for me. There are two strategies for people to make a choice. For some one, they always know exactly what they want and are willing to go through hell to get it. For another group like me, however, simply do not know what our goal is. While through trial-and-error, we can narrow the choices step by step，and finally get what we prefer.
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