林肯说，别和狗抢道，别和垃圾人一般见识

被竞争哲学高度绑架的当代社会，充满戾气，情绪失控、咆哮狂躁癫痫的垃圾人满街都是。碰到这样的人，怎么办？

别和Ta一般见识。

说来容易，做到难。事到临头，没有定力，难得不随对方起舞，做出应激反应。

好吧，给你增加点定力。

中国的圣人提醒你：“小不忍则乱大谋”。

美国的圣人林肯提醒你：“no man who is resolved to make the most of himself can spare time for personal contention, still less can he afford to take the consequences, including the vitiation of his temper and the loss of self control, yield to larger things to which you show no more than equal rights, and yield to lesser ones though clearly your own, better give your path to a dog, than be bitten by him in contesting for the right, not even killing the dog, will cure the bite.” 

就是说，一个成大事的人，不能处处计较别人，消耗自已的时间去和人家争论，不但有损自己的性情，且会失去自己的自制力。在尽可能的情况下，不妨对人谦让一点。与其跟狗抢道，不如让狗先走一步，如果给狗咬一口，你即使把狗打死，也不能治好你的伤口。