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        How  did a grumpy woman come into being? Because the husband is unwilling to listen to his wife's complaints, unwilling to listen and distinguish whether there is a true will in the complaint, whether there is real information to be obtained. We often take the great philosopher Socrates as an example of how tough Socrates' wife was, but how open-minded and wise Socrates was. Sadly, we tend to see only one side of things, ignore the other, emphasize only one side of things, and ignore the other side of things-because Socrates often ignores his wife's complaints. In the end, let the wife become an angry, unvirtuous and resentful woman.

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

        So, the foundation of being a great man is to listen to your wife's complaints, endure her complaints, and do everything you can to make that complaint. In a patriarchal society, it is true that women's rights have been greatly improved, but the situation of women still needs to be constantly improved and improved. Society has to constantly reach a recognition and consensus that women can determine the well-being and happiness of a family, as well as the future, and even determine whether a country has a prosperous future.

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

        So our society must provide women with sufficient rights on their own initiative, a right that does not come from men, nor does it come from women's families. It comes from the tolerance and progress of this society and the awakening, development and improvement of women's self-consciousness. Women should learn to control power, grasp fate, to have their own independent ideas and independent economic income, in order to independently exercise their own rights.

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

          We often talk about the complaints of our women in our spare time with a few married colleagues. We often say how beautiful we were before we got married, where we could go, who we could talk to, and where we could stay at night. But after marriage, he lost such a right, has become a caged person, has become a person living in the castle, even the opportunity to breathe, and even open the window to look outside the castle have been denied the opportunity. That's true, but when you think of a woman in charge, it means you've entered a happy paradise. Why else would marriage be called a happy paradise?

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

        Women are sensitive and intellectually superior to men, and this nature and nature make it easy for them to complain. So, when a woman complains, be sure to listen, be sure to reflect, be sure to keep a quiet heart and listen to what she says. If it really makes sense, you have to make a decision to adjust yourself and change yourself. We often talk about adjustment and change based on three basic relationships, the first is your relationship with yourself, the second is your relationship with God, and the third is your relationship with everyone around you. Only you figure out these three relationships and manage them. The cause you do, the family you hold, the marriage you run will be blessed by God. This is going to be the inevitable thing, and it is a matter of course. " 

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

        The sad thing is that there are often a few intelligent people in the world and very few who can listen quietly to their wives' complaints. I remember in a book in the 20th century China's greatest strange book, is Mr. Li Zongwu wrote "thick black school" said: "the world has great achievements, usually the wife's." If you really respect your wife and love your wife, please be afraid of her. As an American philosopher once said about marriage, "if marriage is to be happy, one side must succumb to the other, and one must succumb to the other." If two people in a marriage are in constant confrontation, during the Cold War, or even towards a strange relationship, the marriage has been declared broken and has come to an end. Will give their own family, will bring torture and indelible pain to the two people in the marriage. So, when there are complaints that come from a woman's mouth, you must be sensitive and listen with your ears up. Is there a real need for change? Or just make a little adjustment? This needs to rely on the wisdom, courage and patience of men seriously face, analysis, to solve, and then manage their own marriage.

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

        For me, respecting a woman begins by listening to her complaints. if you can't even afford to complain, what historical mission can you take on, and what else can you talk about?!? Take women's complaints as the sharpening stone of your daily self-sharpening, in this long sharpening, so that you can be comprehensive, so that you can be complete, so that you can be perfect, so that you can have a rich brain, beyond the creativity of others.! I've seen a lot of people who are used to controlling their wives, and they don't care about their wives' complaints at all, they just care about their wives' material needs. They make a lot of money, they have a high social status, they get great glory, but is that all the wife needs? No, no! She often needs to get material satisfaction at the same time, you need to give all the satisfaction of the mind and body. As one priest put it: "in order for a marriage to be happy, it must be the satisfaction of the husband to his wife in terms of body, mind and spirit."

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

        In real life, for example, I have two uncles. An uncle is very capable and can make a lot of money, but my uncle often does not care about his wife's complaints, that giving his wife all the material needs is to meet the wife's everything. My uncle failed to face and deal with his wife's complaints well, leading to his wife's early death. Until now, my uncle had lived alone, and although he had no worries about food and clothing, he had lost the satisfaction of the other side, both mentally and physically. However, my other uncle, although his income was not high and his ability was medium, could only support his own family. But he respects his wife. he is willing to listen to his wife's complaints. he is willing to change the way he behaves for his wife's complaints. he is willing to adjust himself and even succumb to his wife. Up to now, my uncle's family is happy and happy. They can get each other's body, heart, spiritual satisfaction.

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

          So I  personally think, "if a person wants to have a perfect life, a rich life, to see a brilliant tomorrow, to achieve a great self," There seems to be no other way to make an effort and change than to find a way to build on the complaints that your wife makes every day. " As Maugham put it: "every day, we have to find one or two things we don't want to do to sharpen ourselves." The Bible says, "if we only associate with the people we like, only with the people we like, how can we be considered God's people?"

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

          We Chinese have a good saying-there is a good wife at home, the husband does not suffer from disaster. Indeed, whenever we see that a family is happy, exuberant, vibrant and powerful. That's often because the family has great women and greater men to listen to the complaints of their great women. So marriage makes a person more perfect, stronger, richer. But where we see a dilapidated family, a divided family, full of war, resistance and quarrels. Because of this, the family lacks a great woman, and even less a man who can bear the complaints of a great woman. A great man is willing to listen, willing to endure his own woman's complaints, willing to make all the changes and efforts to complain. His willingness to endure complaints reflects his submission to his wife and respect for women. Such a man can achieve great things and shoulder more missions!

To be a great man begins by listening to your wife's complaints(oringnal transition of works)

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