In the process of our growth, always accompanied by the care of parents and relatives. Any love should have a certain limit, love beyond the limit, will be counterproductive. Like a child learning to ride a bicycle, Dad is always afraid that he does not have the confidence to learn. Running side by side, explaining to him the essentials of learning to ride a bike. Mother is afraid that the child will wrestle, always holding the child's bike in the back, always dare not let go. How long does it take for a child to learn to ride a bike so that he can ride a bike? Perhaps he will be bully, think cycling is too simple, let his parents let go, but let go of the fall. Or he dare not let his parents let go, he dare not go back to the train. In fact, we should know, love children is the way to talk. Parents love their children like we give them three meals a day. No, but more will keep him alive. Too much love will only drown the child and destroy the child. I hope everyone can find the limit of this kind of love. No, no. Everything's just fine.
在我们成长的过程中，总伴随着父母亲人的关爱。任何的爱都应该有一定的极限，爱超出极限时，就会起反作用。
犹如孩子在学习骑自行车，爸爸总怕他没有信心学。在旁边一边陪着跑，一边给他讲解学骑车的要领。妈妈害怕孩子会摔跤，总是在后面扶着孩子的自行车，一直不敢放手。
这样学习骑车的孩子，他到底学多久，才会骑车呢？也许他会有恃无恐，觉得骑车太简单了，让父母放手，可是一放手就摔倒了。
又或者他根本不敢让父母放手，父母一放手，他就不敢再动车。
其实我们要知道，爱孩子是要讲方法。父母对孩子的关爱，就像我们给孩子每天的一日三餐一样。没有不行，但是多了，也会让他撑着。过多的爱，只会溺死孩子，摧残孩子。希望所有人，都能够找到这种爱的极限。
不多不少，一切刚刚好。
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