哪里都不算遥远‖《how to fight》一行禅师

哪里都不算遥远

有时候，我们想要和解的人离我们很远，我们觉得已经失去了修复关系的机会。为什么不用电话呢?如果对方能听到你的声音，这有助于避免误解。所以最好不要依靠短信或电子邮件来修复你们的关系。不要太在意文字。只要你练习有意识的呼吸，并与自己和平相处，对方就会从你的声音中听到这一点。如果你很坚定，内心平静，你的话就会打开通往他人心灵的大门。这可能不会马上发生，但这扇门最终会被打开。

NOWHERE IS TOO FAR AWAY

Sometimes, the person we want to reconcile with is far away and we feel we have lost the chance to mend our relationship. Why not use a phone? If the other person can hear your voice, it helps avoid misperceptions. So it’s better not to rely on texting or email to heal your relationship. Do not worry too much about the words. As long as you are practicing mindful breathing and have made peace with yourself, the other person will hear that in your voice. If you are solid and at peace with yourself, your words will open the door to the heart of the other person. It might not happen right away, but the door will eventually crack open.