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Optimism will give life into a vitality and angry, make people from the pain, poverty, embarrassing situation in the super pull out, optimism is the best medicine to keep fresh life.

A poet in his seventies told me that in his life he had many beautiful young friends of the opposite sex. They were all lively, innocent and lovely girls. In his reserved photo album, I read the smiles of youth and innocence, just like being in the flowers and grass of nature.

"In times of adversity, they consoled our aging and despairing souls." The old poet looked like a child, his eyes shining with wisdom. "My infatuation with them is a kind of saint's worship of natural nature, an escape from the false life, and a resistance to aging and death.Pleasure in pain is not self-inflicted paralysis, not passive retreat. The world would not be twisted if people were less aggressive and more understanding and respectful. The river of quicksand once gave a poem that made people feel somewhat "narcotic" : "We shall divide our joys and sorrows equally, and see each other in the brow. Things..

"Merrily poverty is a good thing! "We can all thank old Epicurus for these brilliant words!

It is possible for an individual to conquer difficulties and live happily. Some of the afflicted were once asked if they always felt bitter and sad, and some replied, "No, it was pleasant, and even today I have moments of joy in recalling it."

Why is that? This is because he has psychologically overcome the suffering, he has learned from the suffering of life, he is happy for this. According to Siebel:

1, For today I will be happy. As Lincoln said, "Most men can be happy just by making up their minds."

2. For today I will adjust myself to everything, but I cannot adjust everything to my desires.

3. For today, I want to make my body more healthy, I want to exercise more, good and cherish, do not damage it, do not ignore it, so that it can become a good foundation for my success.

For today, I will strengthen and improve my thinking. I'm going to learn something I don't have yet. I don't want to be a dreamer. I want to read something that requires a lot of thought and concentration.

5 For today I will do three things to exercise my mind; To improve my self-cultivation: to do a good deed for others; Two things I don't want to do.

6.For today I will be a pleasant person. Decorate your appearance, dress appropriately, speak and act gracefully, don't care about others' criticism, don't criticize others' behavior, don't interfere or lecture others.

7. For today I will try to think only about today instead of trying to solve my whole life's problems today. For though I could work twelve hours a day, to do so for a lifetime would appall me.

For today, I will do my work every hour according to my plan. Maybe I won't do it all, but at least I can avoid two shortcomings: excessive haste and indecision.

9. For today I will set aside a quiet half hour for myself to relax and d10.For today I will sweep away my fears. Above all, don't be afraid to be happy. I want to appreciate beauty, to love, and to trust that those I love will love me. In your daily life, you are often touched by many things. Often you frown in the daytime without saying a word, and weep inexplicably at night. Why on earth? You don't know yourself. Until one day a wrinkle creeps up around your eyes and you suddenly realize that the key to never being happy in the past is always looking better than it really is. Always look at what is happening now worse than the truth, always paint the future prospects too optimistic. This forms a vicious circle, so they fall into the "worry about nothing" cycle.

The man who has a fixed aim is apt to disentangle himself from all the other cares which concern him.