每一个生活在现实之中的人，都渴望成功，都期待出任CEO，迎娶白富美（高富帅），都有一颗向往走上人生巅峰的狂热的心。
然而，成功者毕竟是少数……
最近哈佛大学研究得出：成为“废柴”一定有以下这九大根源……一起来看看，有则改之无则加勉。一起努力成为更好的人吧！
1
犹豫不决
Indecision
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
比鲁莽更糟糕的是犹豫不决。
Those who sway with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful, are always easy to be defeated by those who have a strong belief.
像墙头草一样摇摆不定的人，无论其他方面多么强大，在生命的竞赛中总是容易被那些坚定地人挤到一边。
Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing.
雷厉风行难免会犯错，但比什么也不敢做强。
2
拖延
Procrastination
Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
很多时候拖延就是逃避问题和懒惰。
The famous thinker Romain Rolland said,“Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”
著名思想家罗曼·罗兰说：“懒惰是很奇怪的东西，它让你以为那是安逸，是休息，是福气；但实际上它所给你的是无聊，是倦怠，是消沉。”
3
三分钟热度
Brief period of enthusiasm
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
世界上有80%的失败都源于半途而废。
Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.
几乎所有的人都有过“雄心勃勃地制定计划，心灰意冷地放弃计划”的经历。
4
害怕拒绝
Fear of rejection
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
厚重而脆弱的自尊。
Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".
大多数时候，我们在人际关系中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒绝”有关。
5
自我设限
Self-handicapping
Kill your latent ability.
杀死自己的潜能力。
La Rochefoucauld said,"mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand."
拉罗什富科说：平庸的人总是在抱怨自己不懂的东西。
6
逃避现实
Escape from reality
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
逃避现实者更愿意营造一个属于自己的小世界。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
人的悲剧在于眼高手低。
7
总找借口
Excuses
It is not my fault.
错不在我。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
人一旦犯了错，第一反应常常是自我辩护。
8
恐惧
Fear
Timid and cowardly.
谨小慎微的且懦弱。
9
拒绝学习
Refuse to learn
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
你不是寂寞，你只是不想学习。
考虑一千次，不如去做一次！
犹豫一万次，不如实践一次！
拒绝成为“废柴”！
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