每到周末，你给自己解压的方式是什么呢？米姐是看《奇葩说》。这一期的质量，比前面任何一期都高，最走心的一期奇葩说。没有之一。比如陈铭的「一敌三」，比如董静的沉着应对，比如双方开杠环节的争锋相对。这期每个人的论点表达都非常到位。港真，这一期被陈铭老师帅到了，怎么这么优秀！！
本期辩题#他真的很努力是好话吗#？
米姐站队：反方。
陈铭老师一上来就断掉了对方所有论点的源头，拆解了辩题中的TA，当面的说法可能可以通过进一步的解释让对方消失误解，而TA这一个词，代表背后说人，可能会引发谣言或者一些不正能量的竞争。这个拆解一出来，观战的傅首尔都说，从源头切断对方所有的点。
陈铭老师以传播学的概念为主策略，他开始解释传播学的一个frame of reference（参照系）的概念。然后引申到辩题，说当一句话噪声很大的时候，也就是一句话中不直接阐述目的和结果，而是描述过程时，往往会将歧义和误解无限延展开来，而且引申向负面猜测中去。
正如蔡康永老师说的那样，拿专业（传播学）的东西出来讲，很危险。因为你的专业可能不是大部分人生活里面有的经验。然而，陈铭老师通过自己的表达能力，通过极其生动的例子，把绝大多数观众都带了进去。
最后他说，当一句话被社会上99%的人约定俗成认为是含有某种歧义的时候，我们就不应该再提倡大家多去讲这句话。
本次辩论开杠的环节也是非常精彩，两次开杠都把比分追至0:0的场面。开杠过程中，陈铭老师强到逆天，可以说反方能赢，全靠陈铭，最后其实是陈铭老师在以一敌三。陈铭老师不只辩论，他还给出了一个实际生活中非常有用的方法论，就是你想夸人活着安慰人，你直接夸结果，不要夸过程，除非你没有安好心，不然你为什么不选择奉献最低的方法夸人呢？
辩手们都是观点独特、口才出众的“最会说话的人”。你有没有被他们的辩论技巧深深折服呢?下面米姐又开始甩干货了，英语辩论常用语双手捧上献给大家。
1. How to agree strongly with an opinion 完全同意
I couldn't agree more!
I'm of the same opinion.
I don't think anyone would disagree.
I can't argue with that.
I'm sure you are right.
I take your point.
I'd go along with you there.
I share your view on that.
I quite agree with you.
I'm with you on that.
I'm with you there.
That's just what I was thinking.
That's absolutely true!
That's a good point.
That's just how I see it.
That's exactly my opinion.
Absolutely!
You got it! That is true.
2. How to half agree with an opinion 部分同意
Yes, perhaps.
Well, yes.
Yes, in a way.
Possibly.
Yes, I agree up to a point.
Well, you've got a point there.
There's something in that, I suppose.
I guess you could be right.
Yes, I suppose so. That's worth thinking about.
3. How to disagree politely with an opinion 有礼貌的否决
I am not sure really.
I can’t possibly agree with you.
Do you really think so?
Well, it depends.
I'm not so certain.
Well, I'm not so sure about that.
No, I don't think so really.
I’m afraid I disagree.
I’m afraid I have a different opinion.
I’m afraid I don't share your opinion.
I see your point, but i can't really agree with you.
I don’t think so.
That’s not entirely true.
I find that hard to swallow.
All right, but don’t you think…?
I don't think you've got your facts straight.
That was not the case.
That's not how i see it.
Don't be too sure.
Don't speak too soon.
I’ll believe it when i see it.
You know it isn't true.
4. How to disagree strongly with an opinion 坚决的否认
I disagree.
I disagree with you entirely.
I’m afraid I don’t agree.
I’m afraid you are wrong there.
You’re really stretching the truth.
I wouldn’t accept that for one minute.
What are you talking about?
You must be joking.
You can’t really mean that.
You’ve got it all wrong.
No, I won’t agree.
I don’t waste your breath.
You can’t be serious. You must be joking.
You don’t have a leg to stand on.
You don’t know up from down.
5.征求他人观点或意见的用语
I would be glad to hear your opinion of …
Well…what do you think（about…）?
How do you see it?
Do (don’t) you agree?
What’s your view on the matter?
Are you of the same opinion as I?
Let’s have your opinion.
I was wondering where you stood on the question of ….
Do you think that…?
6.引入自己的新观点或看法的用语
Another point is that ….
Another way of looking at it is ….
I forgot to say / tell you that….
In my opinion….
Personally I think....
I believe that....
I think that……
My (the) point is that....
if you ask me...I’d like to say this….`
I’d like to point out that....
Speaking for myself ...
As far as I’m concerned....
In my experience....
7.就自己阐述的观点进行总结时的用语
What I said was….
What I mean to say was….
Let me repeat what I said....
Let me rephrase what I said....
That’s all I want to say.
Do you agree? I’m sure you agree.
8.就对方阐述的观点进行总结时的用语
As you said….
But didn’t you say that…?
If I understood you correctly, you said that….
9.质疑某种观点
That can’t be true.
Can you believe ……?
If I want you want to choose from … and … , which will you join in?
If you ……, can you……? I don’t think so.
My dear friend give me a clear answear please.
I guess what you said just now is too far from our topic to catch it ,we have no interest in it.
If you keep on such stupid type like this, nobody will believe the simple lies that you fed.
10. 其他常用句型
Everything has two sides.
Benefits are more than disadvantage.
Existence means truth.
Today, we are going to debate on~. /Today, we have the motion that~. /Today’s motion is that~.
Under the current situation, there are some problems in~/controversy over~. The issue behind the motion is that~.
So, in this round, we are going to talk about how to solve the problem.
However, this motion [has some vague points(words)/is not clear]. Therefore, I would like to define the motion.
In this round, we will [define the word A as B/limit X to Y/focus on the case in ~].
Therefore, our proposal is that~
I will explain the mechanism of our proposal.
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