正在读武志红老师的《为何家会伤人》,其中谈到了青春期叛逆的问题,从我所掌握的信息,以及我自身的感受来说,的确如老师所言!
人走向独立就是从青春期开始的,这个时候家长要弄清楚孩子成长的心理特点,顺其自然,而不要过度担忧和控制。反而,会适得其反!
太过听话的孩子,容易转变为“妈宝男”,成为没有主见的“巨婴”。
而过于叛逆的孩子,有过强个性的孩子,也容易与父母发生严重冲突,也会造成不良后果!
青春期问题如果没有解决好,是会影响到人的后面一生的!
如何正面引导,詹大年校长的《丑小鸭中学与白天鹅孩子》一书中提到的化解方法是值得学习和借鉴的!
父母,首先要解决好自身的问题,才有可能处理好孩子的问题,不然,就会是火上浇油,越添越乱!
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