From the excepts, the mother disgree with the action of her son that he not marries even he has a child. The mothers reasons are as follows: financial benefits, social acceptance, the protection and safety of children, the convenience of family members. But the son disputes with his views that he have no faith in marriage and consider marriage is just a ceremony.
marry or not marry, that is a question
Marry or not marry, that is a question. From my perspective, I think marry outweights the freedom that not marry brings us. Firstly, marry gives the people who in the relationship a sense of belonging and security, especially to girl. The sense of belonging and security is vital to maintain and stablize the relationship. Without the sense of belonging and security, the marriage will lose its fundamental basis that is necessary to create the atmosphere of a real family. Marry results in the belonging and security brings peace and peace contributes to maintaining of a family.
Secondly, marry gives the children the feeling of secure. The children would be isolated if his peers know he is different and invulnerable and his parents bring him to the world without the legitimation of marriage. And the children themselves would incessantly question their value and self-identity. If the parents not guide the children in the right way, he would be plunged into the the desert of self-deny and the black hole of despression. In order to give children fertile soil to grow, whether economically or socially, we should take marriage seriously and should not make the decision carelessly or just base on our temporary feeling.
Marriage is not a game and its existence has its reason. If two people are being together without the protection of marriage, they will face the deficit of the sense of belonging and security and their children's unfavorable situations. In short, choose marriage or not is a serious decision.
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