问题描述：现在约我出去的这个男的想要的是什么恋情？他想和我在一起，他说我是他生命中唯一的女人，但不会娶我？？

（这是一个Quora（国外的知乎）上的问答）

李贝琦：如果你喜欢他，也觉得相处舒服，那么你就考虑清楚你更重视什么？这段感情，还是一个名分。

如果你需要“妻子”这个名分的安全感，那么你必须找到有相同观念的另一半。

你不能逼他娶你，如果你太霸道，威胁他什么的，否则结果只剩对彼此的怨恨。

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问题描述：有个妖艳贱货勾搭你的男人，怎么做最显镇定？

李贝琦：做出目空一切，丝毫没有危机感的表情。

淡淡笑一下。就好了。

问题描述：我怎么才能让办公室的同事来跟我搭讪？

李贝琦：你先靠近他，然后东西掉下去或者磕到他的办公椅..立刻假装尴尬的样子，点一下他的肩膀，说“不好意思”！然后开始聊呗...

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问题描述：我女票特别关注她的身材，我该怎么办？

李贝琦：全都取决于你怎么看待她的身材、怎么安抚她的身体好嘛...如果你想要她对她身材感觉良好，她脱衣服的时候，你记得不由自主把嘴张成“O”型，眼中释放野性的火苗。

假如你对她表露爱意，热诚迷恋地膜拜在她身体的每一寸每一尺，还有什么更有说服力咧？

翻译此文是因为文章有趣，想要分享她的思想。另一方面，也可以给想要学习地道英语的人当材料。目前只翻译becky lee（我翻译成李贝琦）的回答。希望大家喜欢或者受到启发~

英语原文：

How do I get the guy in the office to talk to me?

Becky Lee

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Position yourself near him, and drop something or bumpinto his chair.. immediately fake embarrassment and touch his shoulder and say"I'm so sorry"!! Then start conversation...

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hat is the coolest thing to do if a hot girl is hittingon your man?

Becky Lee

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Act like you don't notice, and aren't threatened.

Just smile.

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What type of relationship does the guy I'm dating want?He wants to be with me and says I will be the only woman in his life but won'tmarry me?

Becky Lee

Becky Lee

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If you're happy with him and the way he treats you, thenyou have to decide if you value that over titles.

If you need the safety of the title, then you have to findsomeone else with the same mindset.

You can't force him to marry you, and if you try tomanipulate, threaten, or guilt it out of him, it will end resentfully.

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How do I help my girlfriend become less self-consciousabout her body?

Becky Lee

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It's all in the way you look at her body and touch herbody... if you want her to feel good about the way she looks, let your mouthhang open when she takes off her clothes, and let her see your animalisticdesire for her in your eyes.

When you make love to her, spend time worshiping everyinch of her body, and do it enthusiastically. Nothing speaks louder than that.

原文链接：https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-help-my-girlfriend-become-less-self-conscious-about-her-body/answer/Becky-Lee-11?srid=uw4wf

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