Today I watched the TED talk"Rejected For 100 days", which was delivered by a young man from China.
每日一听：被拒100天
Have you ever rejected by somebody Who you are familiar or unfamiliar with? I want to say "Yes, definitely more than once". In my opinion, It is much more embarrased and discouraged when turned down by people in public, especially someone you really care about a lot.Maybe I will lost myself in the desperate situation for a long time,stagnant.
But in this talk, I am impressed with the idea which is called rejection therapy.
每日一听：被拒100天
What a wonderful idea it is！You just go out and look for rejection. And the prosess will last 30 days and more. At the beginning of the prosess, You may be disappointed and want to give up easily, But If you persist in your goal, You will find It acceptable with rejection in the end.
As a matter of fact , you stay stagnant and you are in a safe position apparently, actually you are backing up.Because others are geting out their way to go ahead, which makes you left behind.
As a result，don't be afraid of rejection. Don't let the rejection define you. But let your reaction after rejection define you. That is the significant point. As For rejection, We should face up to and embrace it.
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