这是一本效率手册。或许你正在使用它（或许没有）。
今天我们来聊聊效率手册。
世界上大概有两种人：一种使用效率手册，另一种没有。
开个小玩笑！但这恰好是我与女友的情况。
她迄今为止已用了差不多有十本这样的效率手册了，意思是用了将近十年。
我的话，不知为啥，近三年我都有一本效率手册。（自己购买或者她赠送的），但我始终没有坚持使用超过三个月。
我们俩的差别是不是非常之大啊！
所以我心中喟叹一声：“好吧，就这样了！”，我确信我是不会再使用它了。（是的！）
效率手册为何物？
这种笔记本，你可以用来制定计划、安排事物或例行公事。换句话说，它能帮你完成你的目标，无论是日目标、月目标还是年目标。
效率手册就是一种工具，我相信你同意吧。如果它是一种工具，那么一个人就有自由选择去使用它/不使用它，对吧？关键不在于手册，而在于使用它的人。手册作为工具本身没有对与错。
效率手册的背后隐藏了什么？它的逻辑是什么？
它背后的逻辑是反向的。
什么意思呢？
首先，你需要有一个大的目标。然后把这个大目标分成中目标，中目标又分成小目标，这样分下去。直到分到可以被执行，这通常是指分配到每一天的目标。
所以，你拿到手的效率手册通常都是以每一天来使用的——即每日计划，然后有每月计划，最终实现你的年度目标。
做计划还是不做计划？哪一个更好？
一个使用效率手册的人，通常被认为是有计划的人；而一个不使用效率手册的人，通常被认为是没有计划的人。
我认为这不是事实。因为尽管我不使用效率手册，但是我还是会计划。我只是觉得效率手册这种手册不适合我而已。我当然还是会计划的，举个例子，我会使用代办清单（来做计划、安排事宜）。我甚至不需要使用实体的纸张或者笔记本，我可以用我手机的记事本。
所以，使用/不使用效率手册并不能说明你是一个有/没有计划的人。仅仅当你真心认为使用效率手册是最好的方式时，这就是最好的使用方式。
意愿最重要
如果你的意愿足够强烈，那么去使用效率手册吧。这一点问题没有。
但如果你的意愿不足够，那么尽管不去使用它吧。这不是一种罪。
积极面与消极面
使用或不使用效率手册，都有其积极面与消极面。
使用效率笔记的人，可能会导致打卡上瘾症，就是为了完成任务而完成任务。
不使用效率的人，可能会养成拖延的习惯。
没有暴露度就没有计划
有一个心理咨询师曾说过，一个没有找到他想做的事情，是因为暴露度不够。他在这个世界上的暴露度还不够多。
也就是说，如果你想找到你人生的目标或激情，你需要足够多的暴露度。
没有暴露度就没有激情，没有激情就没有计划，没有计划就无从谈起使用效率笔记。
所以，确定自己先有一个目标/激情。
是否在意结果
每个人都有他的人生。每个人生都有一套哲学。
效率手册的使用者通常在意结果，所以他们坚持使用它。
不使用效率手册者通常不在意结果，所以他们选择不使用它。
当一个人找到自己的人生目标/使命的时候，他无论如何都要去做的，而不会去在乎结果会怎样。
好了，以上是我对效率手册和做计划的一些想法/看法。欢迎留言讨论。你可以告诉我你是效率手册的使用者，抑或不是。也可以告诉我你们使用效率手册的一些心得体会。
谢谢！
This is an efficiency notebook. I am sure that one of you are probably using it, or not.
Let's talk about efficiency notebook today.
I think there are two kinds of people in the world: One who uses an efficiency notebook, and one who don't.
Just kidding! But that's the kind of situation which my girlfriend and I are in.
My girlfriend has almost like ten of these notebooks, meaning almost a decade.
As for me, for some reason, I've got one of these notebooks for the last three years. (Either bought it by myself, or be given by her.) But I've never continuously used it over three months.
Such big difference between me and her!
So I am like: "OK, I'm done with it!", and I'm sure that I will not use it again. (Yep!)
What is an efficiency notebook?
It's the kind of notebook that you can make plans, schedules or routines. In other words, it can help you achieving your goals, whether it's daily, monthly or yearly.
The notebook is just a tools, I think you agree with me. If it is a tool, so one can choose to use it or not, right? The point is not about the notebook, but who to use it. The notebook itself as a tool is not right or wrong.
What's behind the efficiency notebook? Or what's the logic underneath it?
The logic you can look at it, is reversed.
It means, First, you need to have a big goal. And the big goal can be divided into medium goals, and medium goals can be divided into small goals, and so on. Until it can be implemented, like daily.
So that's the logic why you are use daily pages, and then monthly pages...
And ultimately you've achieved your big goal.
To plan or not to plan? Which is the best?
One who uses an efficiency notebook often being indicated as a planner, one who doesn't often being indicated as a no-planner.
I think it is not true. Because although I don't use an efficiency notebook, but I still plans. I just felt that this tools were not for me. Of course I still plans , for example, I uses an To-do list. I don't even need an actual paper or notebook, just can do it on my cell-phone.
So use it or not doesn't make you a planner/no-planner. It is only the best way to use it when you are really want to use it.
It's all about Willingness.
If your willingness is strong enough, go ahead uses an efficiency notebook. It's nothing wrong about it.
And if your willingness is not particularly strong, be free not to use it. It is not a sin.
Upside and downside.
Use an efficiency notebook or not. It both got upside and downside.
An efficiency notebook user may develop addiction to crossing, I mean addiction to task fulfillment.
And an user who don't use an efficiency notebook may develop procrastinating.
There is no plans when one's exposure level is low.
A therapist once said, that one who doesn't find his passion is because he/she got less exposure to the world.
So it to say, if you want to have a big goal or find your passion, you need to exposure enough to the world.
No exposure no passion, no passion no plans, no plans no efficiency notebooks.
So make sure that you find your goal/passion first.
Only if you care about the result.
Each one of person live their lives. Each lives have its philosophy.
The efficiency notebook users often care about the results, so they kept using it.
The other kind of users don't care about the results, so they chose not to use it.
And if one have found one's passion, and one will just do it whether it's hard or not, whether the results gonna be.
Ok, those were my little thoughts on efficiency notebook and planning.
Please be free to leave your comments. And tell me if you are an efficiency notebook user or not, and how you used it, please share your experience.
Thanks!
Mr. MewVibe
2020.08.29
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