How long does your longest friendship last?Today I will share with you my most unforgetable experience.
"Darling,I'm back in two weeks.Be ready to treat me."
Yeah,it's my confidant.She's back from Beijing or Chongqing every week.Every time,she asked me out and poured bitter water.At last I wondered why I should pay for her bitter water and listen to her same story more than ten times. I'm not interested in her child ,especially the one who I haven't seen till today.I'm not interested in her reason of divorce either.
Four years ago,she got married with a handsom and rich man and gave up her job.I advised her to own her business.She didn't think so. Her good husband can support her.I was astonished that she owned such values. In my mind, you should keep economic and spiritual independence,then you are equal in family status.
As she was away from society,she cared about her husband and something about life. Maybe she acted as a good housewife. Her topic about life can't strike a responsive chords in my heart.I focused on my life and job.
As she was away from society,when she copyed with divorce business.She needed the lawyer's advice.She asked my ex boy friend a lof of questions.Although I hinted about the reward of advice.She turned a deaf ear to it. She complained about the people around her. They don't help her.She got help from others,but never returned.It seemed she forgot the social rules.
As she was away from society for a long time,she didn't know the difficulty of earning money.She complained that her mother prohibit her from tasting all kinds of restaurants.She complained that she didn't buy new skirt after divorce.She complained she didn't have time to do yoga and join in toastmasters as I do.However her mother is as old as our mother and still makes money very hard to give her and her baby better life.
The sound came to my mind.She can only make negative impact on you.Why don't you leave her.The other sound said"Are you crazy,she's your confidant.How dare you abandon her in dark time"
Benjamin Franklin told us be slow in choosing a friend,slower in changing. I consulted with another friend,He is wise and owned a lot of friends more than ten years.He told me friends should share happiness and sadness together.What's more ,they should grow up together and share the same values.A good friend is such that one can't help become better and match her all the time.
Birds of a feather flock together.People gather based on the same principle.
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