一位年老的绅士去看医生,医生检查完后,跟他说“药物对你没有帮助,你必须彻底的休息,到安静的乡村待一个月。每天早点睡觉,多喝些牛奶,多步行。一天最多抽一根雪茄。”
一个月后,这位绅士再次去看医生,“你怎么样?”医生问,“我很高兴见到你,你看上去年轻了很多”。
“哦,医生,我感觉好多了”,绅士说,“我休息的非常好,我很早上床,喝很多牛奶,走很多路。你的建议的确帮助了我,但你告诉我,一天抽一支雪茄,开始的时候,那个雪茄差点要了我的命。在我这个岁数再开始学抽烟,真不是开玩笑!”
Once an older gentleman went to see a doctor. The doctor examined him and said “Medicine won‘t help you. You must have a complete rest. Go to a quiet country place for a month , go to bed early ,drink milk ,walk a lot and smoke just one cigar a day.
A month later the gentleman came to see to the doctor again, “How are you ?”
said the doctor “ I‘m glad to see you again .You look much younger.”
“Oh, doctor, I feel quite well now.”said the gentleman. “ I had a good rest. I went to bed early , I drink a lot of milk , I walked a lot. Your advice certainly helped me. But you told me to smoke one cigar a day, and that one cigar a day almost killed me at first. It’s no joke to start smoking at my age.”
思考:想当然地提建议,有的时候会适得其反。
这个医生就犯了这种经验主义,而绅士没有问清楚,这也是他的问题所在。
当然,这或许是个笑话,但可以给我们一些启发。
遇到问题的时候,一定要沟通到位。
遇到不明白的事情,一定要问清楚。
否则就会像这位绅士一样,医生说每天只抽一根雪茄,而他自己本身是不抽烟的。
虽然是笑话,但我们不可以拿它当笑话来看。
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